Civic Sense – Not Applicable in India
Strong words for the scenario in India. WE are
increasingly being labeled as a country of rapists, scoundrels, a country going
to the dogs, mute to the situation affecting us and with rampant corruption. But,
something has changed in the psyche of our nation we are at best indifferent to
the surroundings. An indifferent attitude, why should we care, or it doesn’t
affect me is the current attitude.
It is interesting we can urinate in public, defecate
in the open but we can’t kiss in public! The morality police would be there to
admonish and also slap you with a fine. Imagine that. Why do Indians lack civic
sense?
Because as Clark Gable from Gone with the Wind says,
‘Frankly my dear, we wouldn’t give a damn. “ We will touch, spit, urinate in
the open invade personal space, touch grope a female, give back rude replies, bully,
conduct unruly behavior on public transport and the worst because nobody told
us it was wrong.
Gurinder Kaur replies, “ I have seen trash flying out the
swankiest cars with out a care. All of us become very civic when we are in
foreign countries for the fear of a fine but here. All gets piled up right in
front of the house!”
Parents these days are worried about good grades,
marks in Math’s, and to secure positions to get admission in universities,
civics is learnt by rote so that one may score high percentages and is not
given any importance. There are no practical lessons in school or at home.
Civic sense is the sense of belongness with a community in all respects and the
social ethics that seek a common good for all. Regrettably we do not keep our
surroundings clean, we will throw all outside the premises without a care for
anyone.
In fact Ms.. Parminder Pannu Councilor of ward 60 is
an upset lady; she is supervising the construction
of the roads in her ward with a huge grant and the behavior of her own
constituent residents is saddening. They are just not bothered in cooperating
with her. There are designated earmarked areas where garbage should be thrown;
but no they will not do so. Drains are being cleaned in Khurla Kingara; that
are overflowing with Corex bottles, broken needles, plastic, and used cloth,
she gets them cleaned again and again and but they get clogged. WHY?
The problem is we end up blaming the authorities, the government,
but we ignore the fact garbage is produced by us, and we dump it in lanes
avoiding to be seen by others. As education seems to be increasing in the
generation is turning illiterate towards cleanliness, hygiene. Civic sense is
not only about keeping roads clean, hygiene but to respect the law, respect fellowmen,
maintaining decorum in public places.
We are witnessing road rage, separatism vandalism of
public property, and a worrying aspect affecting you, everyone, racism and me.
People are becoming less and less tolerant of each other’s
cultures, backgrounds. India is a diverse country and we need to have a general
civic sense and respect others. Navneet Khakh, from Hoshiarpur says lack of
manners, lack of respect for senior citizens, women in particular is
predominant. Col Chamkaur Singh, from Calcutta points an interesting fact that
we all suffer from loud speakers!
Be it in the Gurudwara , temples, or the jagraata wala’s,
yes, please practice your religion, pay homage but blaring noises should be
avoided. I am sure God resides in our heart and He doesn’t need blaring loud
noises.
WE all are guilty, the dirt started somewhere, no one
came and overnight deposited the refuse. Using ‘everybody does” attitude does
not absolve you. Indians are very proud of the lack of display of civic sense.
Be it the highflying businessman, the politician we all flaunt the unwritten
rules.
Teach your child, this responsibility, another also is
that we have precious natural resources do not demarcate, spoil them. Your
undying love poem or carving your initials is not going to make your love
stronger or immortal it will only last if you are true!
According to an
NRI Nancy Chawla Sarkaria ‘ Civic
sense means understanding responsibilities and duties towards its town and
country and not only voicing rights at every given opportunity. Civic sense is
basic common sense making sure waste is properly disposed off, public property
is preserved and traffic rules obeyed. People need to stop playing the blame
game and mud slinging. Rich and poor are equally responsible. Poor people
probably lack civic sense because they aren't aware or educated. The rich don't
care about it because as long as all the rubbish is beyond their palatial homes
it doesn't bother them and it's easier to just roll down their car windows and
sling all the rubbish on to the roads Well off course what are the sweepers
paid for!
The onus of keeping our surroundings starting from the
street , to the city to the town to the state and the country so forth lies
with us. It is our money being used by the government to build the
infrastructures, be judicious and respect it . In the end your own pocket gets
pinched in a roundabout fashion. Do not think , it is not your problem , it is
!
We , welcome suggestions by the readers and hope we
can start a campaign to live better and enjoy our surroundings rather than turn
up our noses in disgust .
dear friend,u have very well pointed out some of the issues effecting our lives.it is a great thought to be able to do something about this.we need to instill a sense of belonging along with he civic sense.education has a big role to play.the difficult thing which is even more menacing is that if u stop and point out to anybody these days that u are doing something wrong,the person becomes aggressive and instead of making a change,wants to argue violently.
ReplyDeleteI agree , aggression is there . But we cannot give up.. we need to change this decay in our society ; as we are leaving it a bit too late for our children
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